【键盘侠】金钱毁掉人际关系|大嘴这人还是很Real的
Charles Barkley: "Money ruins all your relationships. No matter what you do for your family, it's never enough. All your friends think because you're rich, you should bail them out of every situation. The only time I had any peace and quiet was on the basketball court."
查尔斯-巴克利：“金钱毁掉了你所有的人际关系，不管你为家庭做了多少事情都不够，你所有朋友都觉得你很有钱，你应该帮助他们摆脱困境。而唯一能够得到平静的时间就只有在球场上。”
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[–]kayano_ai 781 指標 1 天前
He talked about this before on NBA on TNT. He said that when your friends know that youre rich they expect you to pay the bill every time. Seems annoying but I can see it happening
他之前在TNT的NBA节目上说过这个观点。他说当你的朋友们知道你很有钱之后，他们就会希望每次都是你来买单。看上去很烦，但我觉得这事儿还是存在的。
[–]BobbaRobBob 278 指標 1 天前
Yeah, one of my distant relatives plays professional poker and won the world series tournament once. He has a multi-year contract which pays him a few million to play poker and appear at events.
But so many people ask him to do stuff for them, ignoring that he has his own direct family, his own private lifestyle, taxes on his property/restaurant, his contributions to charity, emergency funds, previous investments, etc that he has to commit to first.
And so, it becomes an upkeep rather than a truly comfortable and retired lifestyle.
是啊，我的一个远房亲戚是职业扑克玩家，赢过一次世界扑克系列赛的冠军。他还签下了一份多年合约，对方给他付几百万美金参加职业赛季，然后在一些活动上现身。
但是他身边很多人要求他为他们做事，完全不管他还有自己的家庭，自己的私人生活方式，还得交财产税，要做慈善，要留应急资金，还有之前的投资等等，这些都是他要优先顾及的。
然后呢，这一切都成了勉力维系，而不是一种真正的舒适安逸的生活方式。
[–]MrValdemar 39 指標 1 天前
I still like Steve Harvey's take on it. "My dad told me the best thing I could do for the poor is don't be one of them."
我还是喜欢Steve Harvey（美国黑人主持人）的观点，“我爸告诉我我能为穷人做的最好的事就是，别成为他们。”
[–]Cavaliers AShinyTorchic 4958 指標 1 天前
People flame chuck all the time for his takes but this seems like he hit the nail on the head.
骑士球迷：大家一直都不爽巴克利的观点，不过这次他说的还是蛮中肯的。
[–]CorneliusHussein 1441 指標 1 天前
I think he plays a character like most TV personalities but that doesn't change the fact the man was a NBA player and knows what they're all going through. Sure he says some ridiculous shit on TV but hes still Charles Barkley at the end of the day. You can still flame his takes and agree with this..
我觉得像很多电视人物一样，他是在刻意塑造某种人设。但有一点没法改变的是，他曾是个NBA球员，知道他们都经历了些什么。没错，他没少在电视上乱放炮，但他终归是查尔斯-巴克利。你可以不爽他的观点，但这次你得认同……
[–]BobbaRobBob 111 指標 1 天前
Unlike his basketball analysis, Chuck's takes on real life shit is always on point. Sure, there are dumbass moments but he always keeps it real.
不像他的篮球分析，巴克利很多关于现实生活的言论倒是很在理。当然了，他也有混球的时候，但他总是很REAL。
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[–]Mavericks BobbyFischerG 1490 指標 1 天前
When you're rich everyone wants a piece, you'll find that you have uncles and couisins you never knew you had.
小牛球迷：当你很富有的时候，每个人都想分一杯羹，你会发现不知道哪儿冒出来那么多表舅和老表。
[–][BOS] Jaylen BrownYe_Biz 1753 指標 1 天前
Mo Money Mo Problems
杰伦-布朗球迷：钱越多，麻烦越多啊。
[–]Mavericks SUBPARFUBAR 269 指標 1 天前
I'd trade every relationship I have for a cool hunnad milly.
独行侠球迷：我愿用我所有的人际关系换一个有钱人身份。
[–]Skibibbles 365 指標 1 天前
That's how you end up miserable.
那你就要悲惨地结束这一生了。
[–]Mavericks SUBPARFUBAR 28 指標 1 天前
Sure but I can spend a few years buying everything I've ever wanted. When that's over I can OD on my own time. Beats going to a job I hate every day for the next 50 years.
独行侠球迷：没错，可我能够买自己想买的东西啊。钱花光了我就用药自行了断，总比以后50年每天做着不喜欢的工作好吧。
[–]WizardsPM_ME_KNEE_SLAPPERS 732 指標 1 天前
I've seen families torn apart over inheritance money. It's crazy.
奇才球迷：我见过有的家庭为了遗产闹得四分五裂，太疯狂了。
[–]Trail Blazers Proteus_Marius 935 指標 1 天前
Lottery winners often find themselves in the same predicament.
开拓者球迷：那些中了彩票的人常常有这些烦恼。
[–]Wizards PM_ME_KNEE_SLAPPERS 623 指標 1 天前
I read a documentary on a guy who already owned a business and was considered wealthy before he won a large jackpot. He tried to help people with his new found money and even hired a PI to investigate if everyone who wanted money was legit. People ended up killing his grand daughter trying to get his money. It was terrible. All this happened to someone that knew how to deal with large amounts of money.
奇才球迷：我看过一个报道，说一个人有自己的生意，已经是大家眼里的有钱人了，然后中了大奖。他试着去用这些帮助别人，甚至还雇了一个私家侦探去调查那些要钱的人是否合理。最终有人为了要钱杀死了他的孙女，太糟糕了。那些知道怎么处理巨额财富的人都会碰到这种事。
[–][BOS] James Young walterdog12 668 指標 1 天前*
It's the one thing most rookies are almost never prepared for it seems. You see it every year with rookies (not even just the top lottery picks) going out and buying like a 4 million dollar car house, a car, and a house for their parents, and just like that nearly half their money's gone and they haven't even hit summer league yet.
I know the league has like 1 or 2 (I think mandatory) pre-draft classes/talks you have to sit through from former NBA players talking about money and how they blew it and financial advisors and whatnot, but honestly I doubt any of that works as intended.
这是几乎所有NBA菜鸟球员都没有事先准备的一课。你看看，每年都有新秀（不止是那些顺位靠前的）去买一栋400万美金的房子，再给父母买房买车。就这么的，将近一半的财产已经花光了，那会儿甚至连夏季联赛都还没开打。
我知道联盟好像会在选秀前给新秀上一两次课，会让你坐着听那些前NBA球员谈论金钱，已经他们如何挥霍一空的，还有一些理财建议，但我真怀疑这些课程是否发挥了预期的作用。
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[–]Bulls bjankles 1626 指標 1 天前
My brother went to a super elite college, and made some very rich friends. Like, 'nine figures' rich. I've met them a few times, and a big part of how they make it work is to simply act like regular people when it comes to money. They don't offer to pay for things, they don't spend more than the people around them spend, they never, ever talk about it. Honestly even once you know, you totally forget how rich they are after spending a bit of time with them. I think that might be the best you can do in their situation.
公牛球迷：我哥去了一所非常精英的学校，和一些有钱人做了朋友。那种“九位数”富人。我见过他们几次，他们能够相处融洽的一个关键仅在于，涉及到金钱时，就像正常人一样去做。他们不会说强行买单，不会比身边的朋友花更多的钱，从来都不谈起这些。说实话，即便你之前知道他们有钱，但你也和他相处一段时间后，会完全忘了那些人很富。我觉得他们的这种方式是最佳的。
[–]Jazz Maclin26 1394 指標 1 天前
That wouldnt really work for professional athletes. It takes 5 seconds to google their contract information.
爵士球迷：这种方式可不适用于职业球员。你只要5秒钟就能搜索到他们的联系信息。
[–][LAL] Kobe Bryant Dongsquad420BlazeIt 476 指標 1 天前*
FWIW Kawhi was still driving that Blazer 1997 Chevy Tahoe and clipping coupons. If he wasn’t a recognizable figure, you wouldn’t know he was rich.
科比球迷：不管怎样，莱昂纳德还在开着他那97款的雪佛兰塔荷，而且还剪优惠券。如果他不是一个名人的话，你都不会觉得他是个有钱人。
[–]76ers Tr3xd3x 240 指標 1 天前
No way Kawhi is clipping coupons lol
76人球迷：别闹，卡哇伊还剪优惠券，哈哈哈哈哈
[–]76ers timacles 43 指標 1 天前
They just dont make scissors big enough for his hands
76人球迷：怕是没有他手那么大的剪刀吧。
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[–]Rockets MisterPhamtastic 241 指標 1 天前
Although not at the same scale I grew up very poor and now I clear about 20K a month at 27, I hide this fact with potential partners and old friends by not buying stupid shit and dumping money into ETFs instead.
火箭球迷：虽说我没到那个地步，但我小时候很穷，现在27岁每个月大概赚2万美金，这事儿没告诉那些老朋友，我没乱买东西，而是投资了开放型基金。
[–]Disco__Lemonade 245 指標 1 天前
hey its me your cousin
you game? wanna help fund my startup?
嘿，是我啊哥，我是你表弟。想帮忙投资我的创业公司吗？
[–]Rockets MisterPhamtastic 200 指標 1 天前
Show me your tits
My cousins and I are close
火箭球迷：给我看看你的奶头，我和我表弟很亲近的。
[–]Pistons soneran 89 指標 1 天前
I am no longer your cousin
活塞球迷：那我不是你表弟了。
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